At some point, we’ve all been there.  Over the last few years each of us—at least one time—has become fed up enough with our jobs to consider starting a small business.  The process always starts the same way: we do some research on the Internet, make a few phone calls, and run a set of rough financial projections.  Then, when we believe our idea is solid enough to begin discussing it with others, we lay out our high-level plans to friends, relatives and co-workers .  . . only to be brought crashing back to earth when someone asks the following question:

“But 8 out of 10 small businesses fail, don’t they?”

And while these fateful words are still ringing in our ears, we gather up our research and financial calculations, and toss them in the back of a rarely-used drawer.

The fact that your small business dream has an 80% chance of forcing you into personal bankruptcy is scary.  But this singular statistic does not tell the entire story.  When  you have a chance, grab a piece of paper and write down 10 people at random from your friend, relative and peer network.  Once you have 10 names on your paper, go back through the list and make an ‘X’ next to the people you believe have the knowledge, motivation and passion to start a small business and keep it going.  How many ‘X’s do you have?  Odds are, you have no more than three marks on your paper.

Do you see where I’m going with this?  The fact is, 8 out of 10 small businesses fail because 8 out of 10 people who start them have no business doing so.  And why do these companies fail?  Because their newly-minted business owners continue to fall into the same three traps their predecessors did.  If you’re tired of making money for someone else and considering starting your own company, be sure to avoid these VERY common new business pitfalls.

#1:  The “I’m Good At This–I Should Do it for a Living” Trap

When I’m not working 50 hours per week at my real job or spending my nights blogging, I’m learning the art and science of barbecue.  I love barbecue, and happen to think my slow-smoked pulled pork and St. Louis-style ribs are good enough to be on the menu at any restaurant in the three-state area.  With this belief in mind I recently cleared an entire weekend to do nothing but slow-roast various meats in a 225-degree hickory pit, and realized something: I hate doing the work.  After two days of preparing, smoking, slicing and serving nearly 100 pounds of barbecue to my friends and neighbors, something finally occurred to me: hovering over a fire all day and constantly smelling like Hickory wasn’t what I wanted to do with my life.  The lesson here is simple: to avoid the most common small business trap, you need to have the foresight to test-drive your business idea BEFORE you invest your life savings in it.

#2: The “I’m Going to Pursue my Passion” Trap

Although the phrase “Do what you love, and the money will follow” makes a great opening line for a commencement speech (and one hell of a bumper sticker), there is a very important fact that most business owners ignore: your ‘passion’ may or may not actually pay a living wage.  The whole point of starting a small business is to gain employment and financial independence—not to help you spend every waking moment in love with what you’re doing.  In the real-world, having fun is what hobbies are for; and successful business owners understand the difference between doing something they love, and doing something they don’t hate that also pays extremely well.

#3: The “I Can Start by Selling to My Friends and Relatives” Trap

The idea of sucking money out of friends, neighbors and relatives is no longer exclusive to pyramid schemers and MLM participants.  People who are looking to start real businesses often use social networks as a marketing ‘crutch,’ and rarely look beyond their personal contacts when planning the growth of their business.  But every budding entrepreneur needs to ask him or herself a very simple question: when my friends and relatives stop buying, how will I reach people who don’t know me yet?  The answer to this question is called a Marketing Plan, and if you don’t have one, you might as well start sending resumes to Fortune 500 companies again.

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Eric Rudolf is Director of Marketing for one of the fastest-growing professional development and training companies in the world. Eric's work has been republished and Retweeted by The Rainmaker Report, The Social Media Guide, WhyPR, Elite Tech Jobs, Microsoft Small Business, and others. If every job paid the same, Eric would restore old houses or shoot pool for a living.

7 Responses to “3 Traps to Avoid When Starting Your Own Small Business”

  1. Cory Says:

    All 3 are very common factors in small business, and a huge factor in why most fail. Starting a business is just not as easy as some people make it seem. Sure, I guess some can be easy, but most are tedious work, and people realize that once they actually set out to make that dream a reality.

  2. Robert Rogers Says:

    A little research goes a long way when starting a business. It gives you the foresight necessary to try to build something successful.

  3. Eric_Rudolf Says:

    Agreed! A few hours of surfing the web or talking to a current business owner can go a long way. I think in many cases, people don’t do the research because they truly do not want to discover that their idea might not be feasible.

    Thanks for writing!

    - Eric -

  4. Anderson Curry Says:

    Great post Eric..

    Anderson..

  5. Eric_Rudolf Says:

    Thanks for the comment, Anderson. We’d love to see you back here again soon!

    - Eric -

  6. Shalon Says:

    Great post. And it speaks directly to my annoyance with so many people and their “fairytale” mentality. I think many small businesses fail because the owners just don’t realize HOW much work it is going to be, how much time they will spend getting it started and growing it into a successful endeavor. They subscribe to the Disney version of owning your own business…being the boss and having all the little birds and mice happily singing and doing the work for you and everything just falling into your lap. Meanwhile successful companies have the owner realizing they will be doing the dirty work, that they actually ARE Cinderella, and that there is no fairy godmother to come magically make it all work! :)

    Shalon

  7. Eric_Rudolf Says:

    Hi Shalon:

    You make some GREAT points. For whatever reason, over the years various entities (media, professional speakers, life coaches, mentors, etc.) have been beating this “Chase Your Dream–Work for Yourself!” drum, without taking any time to also explain the multitude of downsides, risks and traps that also exist. You speak as if you have definitely been there before ;-)

    Thanks for writing, and good luck!

    - Eric -

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